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10 secrets to surviving your PhD

By January 31, 202112 Comments6 min read5,953 views

After 3 years of hard work, today I hit the “submit” button on my PhD thesis

Today, I’ve submitted my PhD for examination – a major milestone on my PhD journey. Time to take stock of the value of investing three years of my life into this rigorous academic endeavour.

I’m going to do so through a thematic analysis of my research journals. In these notebooks I have scribbled information, reflections, research ideas, questions, and inspirations from lectures, readings, reading group sessions, and supervision meetings with Distinguished Professor Ingrid Piller and Dr. Loy Lising. 10 lessons stand out that helped me not only survive my PhD but thrive and grow as a researcher and person.

  1. Listen more. This is the advice my parents gave me on my first day at Macquarie University. It is a reminder that I am a learner, the world is my classroom, and every person and moment that becomes part of it has something to teach me. So, I try to listen for brilliance in formal lectures of experts as well as conversations with 6-year-olds. I also pay more attention to my health now and listen to my body. I don’t check my email on Sunday, I frame each day with prayer, and I cap the year with a silent retreat. These habits of creating more silence around and within me helped me regularly recenter my otherwise easily anxious mind.
  2. Go outside your comfort zone. For me this meant being more sociable than I normally am and investing time in building relationships with people whose life and work inspire me to be better. This also meant volunteering, actively seeking out opportunities, and braving the challenge of trying new things (like joining the 3MT!) and exploring new places with new people or, sometimes, by myself.
  3. A bit over 3 years ago: first day on campus as a new PhD student with my parents and my new supervisors

    Surround yourself with people who believe in you. This wisdom from Dr. Loy was an important lifeline in moments of self-doubt. In moving out of my comfort zone, I have found new safe spaces, like the Language on the Move reading group that Prof. Ingrid has created for her current and previous PhD supervisees. These like-minded researchers have become my academic family. We support each other by sharing research and life milestones, mentoring each other, and encouraging one another to keep writing and reading.

  4. Read good books. The Language on the Move yearly reading challenge has taught me the value of reading beyond my research topic and my usual interest. For instance, I wouldn’t normally read about cyberspace, but I did for my first reading challenge in 2018 and wrote a review about a book on multilingualism on the Internet. Reading widely has stretched my thinking, challenged my own views, and enhanced my writing. Remember to check out our reading challenge for this year!
  5. Write every day. This is an advice that worked for Alfredo Roces, a respected Filipino artist and author who wrote a daily column in the Manila Times for 12 years. “Magsulat ka. Gusto mo, ayaw mo, magsulat ka.” (Write. Whether you like it or not, write.) “Write with passion and honesty.” I did my best to do the same, aiming to write at least a few hundred words every day. Of course, it has happened several times that I revised all those words the next day. But no matter, the point is making writing a habit, like brushing your teeth.
  6. Members of the Language-on-the-Move team were there to witness my Sunday submission

    Be flexible in a structured way. These words from Livia Gerber, one of my PhD sisters, beautifully captures the attitude and approach that thesis writing (or any kind of purposeful writing) calls for. Planning is always an exciting stage for me, but now, so is re-planning. As Stephen Krashen said, “Rigid outlines are an enemy of creativity. Good writers plan but they’re willing to change their plan.”

  7. Reflect. “Reflections on life feed into our research and our research feeds into our life” (Ingrid Piller). Diarizing my plans and thoughts about my progress has helped me stay grounded and cope better with unexpected changes. For example, I learned an important lesson on resilience when the travel restrictions in 2020 cancelled my much-awaited research trip to the US, for which I had received highly competitive funding from Macquarie University. In retrospect, I see how finishing my PhD during the time of pandemic has enriched my research experience in a unique way. Auspiciously, it even extended the relevance of my study, which also looks into work communication practices of offshore accountants working from home, a now-normal situation for many professionals across the globe.
  8. Celebrate complexity. One of my early mistakes was trying to paint a simple picture of my data. My supervisors were quick and patient to show me that human beings, the way we use language, and the institutions we shape and that, in turn, shape us are all gloriously complex. The beauty of ethnographic research is that it brings this complexity to light, and it is my duty to be truthful to my findings. My PhD project has been a special opportunity to outgrow my own biases about people and their communication practices and views. Indeed, research has helped widen my understanding of what it means to be human.
  9. My supervisor taught me that it takes innumerable carefully placed stitches to create a beautiful whole

    Do one stitch at a time. The PhD is the biggest academic project I have ever undertaken in my life so far. It’s easy to be overwhelmed by the idea and to get caught up with the goal of turning in the perfect thesis. But as a wise person once said: there are two kinds of thesis—perfect and submitted. Prof. Ingrid Piller offered different metaphors to capture the sense of steadily working towards completing quality work rather than fixating with the elusive notion of perfection. My favorite metaphor is weaving. Etymologically, the word ‘text’ means ‘something that is woven.’ To produce a big text, the key is to focus on the big idea and to work on one small stitch at a time, steadily chaining the thread, being careful not to drop any stitches, until the idea is finally woven into a whole. Thinking of my work this way helped make it a more manageable and meaningful process.

  10. Keep moving. “The PhD is a point on a journey, not the pinnacle of achievement” (Ingrid Piller). Certainly, it is a big milestone. But life goes on after pressing the “submit thesis” button. It is equally essential to anticipate life after PhD. I am grateful to the Macquarie University HDR mentors for organizing a seminar about this and especially to my supervisors, who continue to mentor me as I prepare to go back to my home university in Manila, where I hope to pay it forward.

So should you bother to do a PhD?

For me, it has been a way to become a better version of myself for the world. While not everyone is called to do a PhD, it is a specific path to grow in knowledge of oneself and others, and in virtues of the mind as well as the soul. I am very grateful for this three-year vocation.

Pia Tenedero

Author Pia Tenedero

Dr. Pia Tenedero is Assistant Professor in the Department of English of the University of Santo Tomas (Manila, Philippines). She is also Honorary Research Fellow of Macquarie University (Sydney, Australia), where she finished her PhD in Linguistics with a thesis on the language practices and ideologies of globalized accountants. Her other research interests are English language learning, intercultural communication, multilingualism, and discourse analysis in globalized professions and social media.

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Join the discussion 12 Comments

  • Jo Forbes says:

    Congratulations, Pia! And thank you for sharing your ten secrets; so many wise words from yourself and others.
    All the very best for your future endeavours.
    Jo

  • Andy Gibson says:

    What a beautiful reflection. Lots of great insights here, thank you for sharing so honestly and with such clarity.

  • Jiayu Wang says:

    Hi Pia,

    Congratulations!

    What an inspiring reflection essay! I like Tip 9 “Do one stitch at a time” most, as I’m currently facing the difficulty of stitching. There are so many thoughts in my mind which are small pieces scattering here and there. It is never easy to chain the tread! It is also intriguing to see the photo in which you and your supervisor hold the little “rug”. I will bear the picture in my mind when writing my own thesis, as it shows thesis writing in a very intuitive way.

    As you said “… it is a specific path to grow in knowledge of oneself and others, and in virtues of the mind as well as the soul”, I can see that your Ph.D. is not just a training for you to be an established researcher, but a process to be a better version of yourself. I feel happy and excited about your success and growth! I wish I could also have such a great achievement when I finish my Ph.D. journey.

    All the best for your bright future!

    Cheers,
    Jiayu

    • Pia Tenedero says:

      Many thanks for your thoughtful words, Jiayu! I’m glad to know that these lessons could help you, too. A little secret — I took up crochet as a hobby during my candidature. Even though it’s not directly relevant to my PhD work, it helped me see the process in a different way. Every finished crochet project was like a rehearsal of my thesis completion. It’s comforting to know that even the “other things” we do during our PhD journey could also be helpful in some ways. I hope you find every moment of yours exciting and meaningful!

  • Gegentuul says:

    What a beautiful and useful reflection! Congratulations again, Pia!
    I am immensely profited from “do one stitch at a time” axiom, which has taken on a life and I often hear its whisper 😉

    • Pia Tenedero says:

      Many thanks, Sofie! It is quite practical, isn’t it, to be reminded and to remind ourselves that even God didn’t create the world in one day. 🙂

  • Samar says:

    Dear Pia,
    Congratulations on submitting your thesis and making us all proud. I have seen you working so hard during the last three years and I learnt a lot from you and your contributions in the RG. During these years, you have proved your perseverance and self-dedication.

    Your submission is a big achievement and a great happiness for everyone who supported you; so congratulations to your supervisors Prof. Ingrid Piller and Dr. Loy Lising.

    And thanks for sharing the 10 lessons which are very inspiring indeed.

    I wish you all the best for your future endeavours.

    Samar

    • Chuty says:

      A huge congratulations Pia. I believe in your effort to do this and you nailed it. Beautifuk lessons indeed. Best wishes in your future career.

      Chuty

      • Pia Tenedero says:

        Thank you, Chuty! You were one of those people who taught me lessons #2 and #3. Appreciate your encouragement and support when I was applying for the postgraduate research fund. You were right! I could do it! Of course, the trip was cancelled, but thankfully I could still do the presentation virtually and there was a beautiful lesson on resilience there. All is gain. Wishing you all the best in your life projects, too!

    • Pia Tenedero says:

      Thank you, Samar, for your kind words. As you say, it is a shared achievement–one I am grateful to share also with you as you’ve been part of the reading group. Soon, it will be your turn to submit and publish your own reflections about the process. It won’t be long now. Looking forward to it!

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